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Sunday, September 27, 2009

sometimes, its better to let go. you'll feel happier, and life is so much more relaxed.

i've decided. i think i've return enough of my debts, i dun wan to be living in so much anger and disappointment anymore. so i've decided to totally let go, and say goodbye to you. but i dun wan u to be too upset, so i'll still be there when the rest call us out, i'll still be there on your birthdays. but dun expect anymore things from me le. u will never be in my list again if i have to buy something for any events. seriously, pls step out and see the real world and stop being a frog in the well. change yourself for the better, not for worst, thou i seriously dunno how worse can u be than now, by hurting your own friends. since u are not willing to 'play a part' in things that have happened, they will be informed when they are back. your name shall thus be removed.
i'm not angry nor having any emotions while typing. ok, i'm happy, cos i've let go of a burden of 5 years le! how can i not be happy? hehe :P


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Sunday, September 20, 2009

day 3:

as usual, the cocks went off at 3plus -_- stupid la! morning as usual everyone woke up at 6plus cos we were going to a place call 清水源 to 拜拜. breakfast was the same things as day 2, thou i think the soya milk was a little more milky and powdery so i dare not drink lor. anyways, waited a while for the vans to come and set off lo! oh, the van drivers were also of the same surname 'ng' and they live very near the house too. i found out later that all the people there were of the same surname. so its one whole area clustered of the same surname de ppl. anyway, the kids were tired before heading off, i think its quite obvious cos they haf been waking up at 5 or 6 am for days le.

anyways, once again, we went onboard the 'safe' van. haha! at least he was nice enough to say that the car there de quality not as good so have to off the air-con when going uphill. off we went! in the way, we say the rail-train. it looks really old and its more like a cargo kind of 'cho-cho-train' lor. and its really... looonnnnnnnnnnnggggggggggg!!!!!!!! but the speed of the train was quite fast la, so i din manage to capture a pic of it.

anyway, 清水源 was located on the top of a very tall mountain. lucky we din haf 2 climb or else we could never have reached the top! haha! as promised, the air-con was offed. but it was ok la, cos the day was cooling. the mountain road was very sttep and curvy lor. its a bit scary la. its like the road where you cab up to Genting, juz that this in China has to road-side barrier so u noe, u fear when you'll fall. this pic is so lucky tat it was a small white sting as a barrierhaha! and along there way, we say that the ppl really noe how to make full use of land space man! as long as there is a little bit of space they'll grow tea le.

once there, all cameras was out to take picture of the super beautiful scenery! the air there was really very very cooling! we tot tat was it. in the end, we continue to hike up a flight of stairs la! we still had to shout 加油 to my little 4 year old niece. haha! tat lazy girl juz refuse to walk on her own -_- after the stiars, there was more platformed uphill road and a bit more stairs la. we had to was our hand before going into the temple too. from a far away distance, we heard a lot of fire-crackers being lit off le. the sound was juz so loud! cos the fire-crackers used there were of enormous size de la! so all the kids din went into the temple, and i sat with them somewhere outside cos i cannot take the inscence smell, keep sneezing!

after a while, when all the praying was done, everyone came back out and we ate the fruits tat was offered to the god. the fruits cos its extremely fresh, so its more of sour than sweet la. but every still ate. got apples, grapes, oranges and pears.

after which, we climb a flight of stairs down-hill again. we took a different path down. then back to the van and off for lunch. the trip down-hill was different from the one we went uphill. lunch de food was ok la, cos i preferred the previous night de dinner. the lunch place de environment was ok de la. a bit bit dirty thou. then the 'danger' drive kept coming into our room to give us drink and to teach us how to eat the food they serve.

after that we went to our ancestor's house which has been there for years and years and years. but i think they did some renovation for it. we took a big family photo there. the van driver din really noe how 2 use my camera, lucky another drive noe. haha! the door was locked so i could only take photos of the inside from the outside.

then it was home sweet home for me and the kids. cos the adults wanna go shopping so i stay in to look after the kids and make them take afternoon naps lor. while they napped, i study my econs and took some pictures of the kids who live there de. the adults came home a bit later and we were off to another uncle's house and dinner.

the uncle's house is really, hmm, quite worn out? its totally bricks and cement only. its more of like a soiled floor and there was only a very very small tea table, and no chairs INITIALLY. somehow, the drives and brothers were very so use to the house that they went to take out the chars for us. it wa those olden days wooden bench that my aunt say i wun noe how 2 sit de. but it was ok lehz. their cupboards had no doors thou. tea as usual, made by the 3rd brother again. my niece was really observing hard how 2 make the tea. haha! the house opposite the uncle's house had a metal roof, that was held down by bricks. so i can imagine the roof flying away if the bricks were not there. lol. we stayed only for a while and it was dinner time.

dinner for once, i should say its really horrible! they serve rabbit meat, eel and beef lor! when none of us can eat the above lor -_- in the end my mum puked. imagine 3 days of pork for every meal lehz! so bad tat the smell got us on our nerves le. after dinner, went home le. did not go anywhere special.

once home, we started to wash our clothes. since it was the last day there, as in at my relatives house. we were going to the xia men city the next day. there was seriously a lot of clothes. the washing machine was quite old, those u see 10 years ago type, and their washing board was cement and was fixed in the sink de. wash wash wash, but we still went back down to the corridor to haf a last night of chit-chatting session and tea session at the house. i join them that night. my cousin and niece saw brooms and they start sweeping the floor i see my 2 nieces 'perform' teacher and everyone had a good laugh.

i was in a different mood that night during the chit-chat session. somehow, i was feeling a little sad. afterall, it will be our last night at the house le. we will still see the brothers (1st and 3rd brother joining us in the city, 2nd brother coming to see us off), but we'll never see the ladies again. they were to stay at home to do the chores le.


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Tuesday, September 15, 2009

i'm trying my best 2 rush out my story bout my trip 2 china, but its taking me 1 hours plus to blog about 1 day, well, so hang on :P


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Monday, September 14, 2009

this is gonna be a super long post.. those not interested, dun read!

i'm finally back frim my china trip at 中国, 福建, 厦门, 金古镇, 田头村. long name huh? its actually longer.. haha!! i can only say its a super enriching trip for me. i sincerely learn how 2 appreciate life here in Singapore. really, we are all too blessed and fortunate to have such good living conditions le. we should all be more than happy! anyways, story time -_-

day 1:
early mornign 4am woke up, wash up, get ready to go airport. cab suppose 2 come at 5.45 am, but it came at 5.25am instead -_- in the end, we reach the airport T2 far tooooooo early. 6.10, evey1 reached. checked in, went for breakfast at ya kun toast. 6.50, went in le. flight was supposed to be scheduled at 8am intially, but in the end was delayed for 30 minutes. 4 hours flight to china on silk-air.. we sat on a smaller airplane, so was more croweded la. almost every1 slept on board the plane. haha!! everyone woke up too early le la. haha! breakfast was ok la. i like the egg thou, even though it was a bit cold la.. haha! we reached the Xia Men international air-port at 12.45 instead of 12.15. when we alight from the plane, there was a bus to pick us up. it was only like 10 steps away for us to walk but well, they say passengers cannot walk so wee took the bus, made a u-turn and alighted. took no more than 1 min i think -_- my relatives were there 2 receive us. quite hornoured. got the 3 brothers ad the eldest 2nd sister's husband. they juz refused 2 let me push and take my own luggage. nice of them la. we were told that the temperature there was 34 degrees!! when we were told its cold in the 9th month of the year so we bought all long plants etc. in the end, we realised we misunderstood that it was supposed to be the chinese 9th month la -_-
we board another mini-bus / van to head out towards the house we were going to live in, as well as for lunch. lunch was taken at 2.30 pm, more than an hour trip from the airport, and when the bus was speeding! the food was ok la. but a lot of pork which i dun fancy, so i ended up eating a lot of the green vege and tofu lor. wah! the vege and tofu are damm nice de la! cos its they home-make and grow de. haha! the toilet, well, its horrible. the toilet has cubicles, but the walls will only reach up to at most your waist length, and there are no doors at all! it was really smelly from the outside and you can't even go near the toilet! in the end, we found out that they only was the toilet in the morning de. so many ppl have used it before we arrived in the afternoon! it was juz a drain that runs throu the centre of the toilet and you juz do you business into the shallow and visible drain. so u can see what the previous person has done b4 u la. (tat's y i say i appreciate the toilets in singapore) while we were leaving, the van driver was nice enough to put a luggage next 2 me so that i can have a hand rest to be more comfortable. haha!!!
then we continue our bus ride to 中国茶都, took another 1 hour. it was an adventure to be seated in the van i took. wah! over there they have no traffic light and they dun care about road safety de lor! they juz over take any vehicles they wan to and juz keep pushing the horn lor! omg damm scary de lor. my cousin sis, aunt and mum were all closing their eyes thorough the journey. haha! anyways, on the trip to the 中国茶都, we saw all the farms by the road-side. say many ppl pushing carts selling tofu, cows juz lazing ard by the road side, strings of goats, loats of rice fields, banana trees field, scare crow and mountains. 中国茶都 is juz a place that basically sells a lot a lot of tes, but we din buy any since my relatives produce their own tea! we juz stop for 20 mins at the 茶都 to see how the tea leaves are being processed.
then, back to the van and another 30 minutes to my relatives house. once again, its a closed eye trip for my cousin, aunt and mum. haha! we saw many many longans trees and ppl selling longans along the way. and there was a Singapore petrol station as well! since when did singapore produce petrol?! haha! but i think its cos the family smart la. cos to the people there, products from singapore are really 高高在上! anyways, the kids were happy to arrive at the place, cos wat greeted them were ducks and chickens! haha! they kids have never seen the ducks and chicken so close to them before! but before they could go near the animals, they were freaked out and they started running away le, cos well, they're scared of them too. haha!
through the 3 hours plus journey to the house, every1 slept. there was countless hornning on the roads. and the air quality was not very good. anyways, back to the house.
to me, the house is HUGE! it has 2 buildings merged as one, and they have another house further down the road. when we arrived, i wasnted 2 go to the back of the van to collet my luggage. BUT! 8 guys were already standing there to ensure that we do not need 2 do anything at all -_- so i couldn't even touch my luggage cos they simply refuse 2 let me hold it -_- i decided to stay outside the house 2 take some pictures. but before i can do anything, a LOUD LOUD LOUD until cannot LOUD de BANG! went off behind me! they acutally put a long long row of fire crackers! but there was no time for me to take down the process so i only took photos of the remians lor. haha! but they say its a grand honour 2 have us there cos we're ppl from the city and we are smart and educated and better-off ppl. its proud for them to know people like us, and that we're willing to bare with their living standards to be living with them. the fire-works were only used during grand events, so see how grand it is for us to be there. ALL THE NEIGHBOURS WERE OUT TO SEE US! so shy :P haha! but the kids were all crying -_-
when we finally went into the house, we were shocked! they juz renovate the stairs half-way, so its all still rocks and cement and there in no railings at all! so you can fall down on your right anytime and there goes your head. cos the floor is really very bumpy and hard, its difficult to climb up and down. (i eventually got use to the stairs on the 3rd day) that is the eldest brother's building. i stayed at the house that belong to the 3rd brother. him and his wife were very very nice ppl. they moved out of their room so that we can sleep in their room, where there is air-con. we have the habit of taking off our shoes when we enter a house in singapore and so we did that in china too. thou the wife and grandma keep telling us not to remove, but we still eventually did that and they said nothing. thou the husband asked his wife to mop the floor. we say its alright de la! haha!
dinner was next and erm, we mainly ate porridge la. cos we're not really used to the vege. its juz simple rice and porridge and for us, they added extra dishes of duck soup and another green vege. for them, their dinner was always juz porrisge and 1 dish, no more. so when the brothers was with us for lunch, u can say they were happy, cos its not very often that they leave the house and go buy food. they basically grow everything on their own. after dinner, we sat outside the house to have a chit-shat session with the family members. then it was bath time! the water that they have are stored in a tank found on the top of every house. this water is flowed from the 泉水 near their house, so its really clean and cooling. but there is a limit in which the amount of water the tank can hold. the house t hat i live in can only hold 10 litres of water. so, my cousin, who was the last one to bath, was stuck in the toilet for 15 minutes! cos have to wait for the water to reach the tank again. after tta, sleep time. but my small aunt, cousin sis and my mum chatted till 12 plus then sleep, thou we were all really really tired. haha! i think all of us except the kids slept well that night, cos being adults, well, it takes mroe time 2 adapt la.

day 2:
stupid cocks started crowing at 3.30am!!!! i could not get back to sleep lor. so loud!!! by 5.30, the sky was bright le! i was so shock!!! my aunt and cousin woke at 6.30 and ask wat time, i told them 6 only and they were all ' wow! its more like 9am le la!' so yea, everyone including the kids woke up. cos its simply too bright and noisy! but well, we haf 2 wake up anyways, cos we were having prayer for my great grandfather. but in the morning we had to pray to the 天公 1st. it was held at the 3rd level of the house. since it took time, i went down to the 1st level for breakfast first. breakfast was soya milk + 油条 and some very hard buns. i juz had one bun cos my stomach needs time to adapt to new foods and it was only like 6.45, i din really had the appetite. anyways, back to the 3rd level and they were still chanting. so i decided to walk ard. i realise that they actually uses solar system to run their electricity. but cos we were there, they decided to use normal electricity, for fear that we cannot adapt. i realised they really did many thigns for us. liek the couple move out of their room of that we can sleep more comfotably in their room, where there is a toilet and air-con. its really sweet of them.

anyways, i saw that they were getting ready to put off the fire crackers. it was a big roll! then the 3rd son de son saw that they were going to put off the fire cracker le was very cute. he made sure that his hands were covering his ears all the while be it walking or sitting down or being carried by his dad. both hands did not leave his ears for the whole time before they set off the fire crackers. it was damm cute of him. haha! anyways, the finally put off the fire cracker and it was LOUD! haha! but i could not cover my ears cos i was taking a video -_- haha! it was as nice la.



next, we walk to a temple to pray. it was a 15 mins walk and i tell u, crossing the road was a hurdle man! scary la! those with weak hearts should not try. haha! we went to the temple to pray to huat zu gong (法主公). the 3rd brother ride a bike to fetch the 2nd brother who was carrying the statue of the god. it was big! then there was even more fire crackers there. really a lot. i really 敬佩 the ah ma who was so pro at setting off the fire cracker. after tat walk back home lor.


rested a while, we went mountain climbing lo! haha, no la, actually to pray to my great grandfather la. it was a difficult cilmb man! the road is like no road! its all man-made paths. i setp out of place down u go, tumbling down the mountain liao. the 山路 is very small and very 陡峭! we had to eventually go down on all 4 to get uphill. thou the people living there make the climb look sooooo easy! the 3 year old kid was leading the way to a 3rd group of people coming! can u imgaine! but well, its a fruitful climb la. my aunts and uncles and parents keep asking me 2 take photos. once you're up there, u completely 4get abt the pain-staking journey up, and the yet-to-come even more pain-staking journey down... the scenery up there is supereb!!! its really a wow! so we prayed, and off went even more fire crackers! the 3rd brother rolled up one end of the crackers and thus there was juz one EXTREMELY SUPER LOUD BANG! but it was fun la, cos there was echo. haha! so down-hill we went. it was an up-hill task for me to get down-hill la -_- i oways have this weakness that its always easy for me to go up, but always very difficult for me to get down. apllies to all ladders or no hand-rail stairs. haha! so my speed down was damm slow but i got down safe and sound. i eventaully follow the ah ma's foot-steps and i realise it was easier to walk following her.


lunch was next, even more food! but i find the braised pork nice for once, since i normally dun eat pork. haha! after lunch, rested a while, and off to shopping! but being smart us, we choose the safest car! haha! ok, we sat without knowing, but praying that the car was safe la. the previous day de danger van was a no no to us le.


the shopping mall we went to is very different from singapore. its like a combination of best denki, NTUC, dorothy perkins, bata, world of sports, cerisi, kiddy place, courts etc etc! and they only have one counter at the enterance. so u have to get all you want then go pay de. we wanted drinks, so we chose and went to pay 1st. you MUST keep the receipt cos they will take and keep the recipet b4 u leave. if u do not haf the receipt you are considered stealing le. then after that we went to the street side market where we saw very cute and old type of weighing scale and baby prams. it was a quike walk la, never really buy anything. then went to the eldest sister's house for a sit lor. who noes the sit turn out to be a napping session for many!


we walked quite some distance and on the way, a few moto-bikes juz brushed by me la! scary de lor! like they can knock me down anytime de!and we saw one whole row of shop-houses selling bee hoon! wow! and the taxi-bike there got umbrella de! so cute! haha


once we sat down at the house, the 3rd brother started to make tea instantly. (he followed us to the house 1st while the big brother was shopping with 3 of my aunts) the big sister was selling rice and flour and some peanuts too. the kids were sleepy so off they went to a room above the warehouse. after a while, my cousin-in-law and my cousin sis both heard rats and saw the rats' tail! eek! but the kids were sleepingn a bed so still ok la. anyways, when we were chatting, we heard someone calling out to the cocks and hens downstairs. it was aldy and oh my, she sounded like one of the chicken herself! its so alike, the voice! and the chickens, upon hearing her call, all queue up and returned to the coop! it rained at 4.15pm and it made the atmosphere so good to sleep that everyone dozed. the rain was a bit different from singapore to us. its like, more gentle? haha! ya, so everyone slept and when we woke up, it was dinner time! oh, did i mention, by 6.30pm, the sky was totally dark le? and its really dark!


dinner was at a restaurant. the food was the nicest! the toilet was the cleanest that i've been in China! BUT! the toilet cubicles has no doors -_- so i was always the one called to stand guard outside the toilet to prevent ppl from going in. anyways, we had a total of 24 ppl so we were splited into 3 tables. 2 mixed gender, 1 table all the guys only. quite commical la. haha!


after dinner, we took the van to go buy some slippers and went home le. on the way, it was total darkness!!! no street lights nothing! it was kind of scary la. once home, my uncle started sawing some sticks used to carry lanterns. we bought some singapore lanterns over for the kids there to play, they have not seen singapore type lanterns b4. so the kids were happy to play with the lantern thou they burn a few. haha! then once everyone had lanterns in their hand, we had a walk to the 2nd brother's house, using the kids lantern to light up the path cos there was no lights from house to house. but the 3rd brother eventually on his bike de head lights to light up pur path la. haha! cos the darkenss its really u put you 5 fingers out and u canot see them de!


at the 2nd brother's house, once again, TEA TIME! haha! they very auto de la. haha! even the kids drank tea this time cos the tea they served is the best tea de. so everyone liked the tea. haha! after a while or so, we went home, this time totally by the light of the bike. bath, chatted a while, bed time lo! once again, a sleepless night for me.

ok, 2days content 1st. its taking me along time.. tut tut


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